Monday, May 12, 2008

Update to "Good News"

Update to News
This will be just a short post, I do not want to keep airing the news from day to day. But it seems that the good news was short lived. My cousin has decided it is best that they not rush back into this situation. I think she is a very wise person. Although we all want them to get back together, she has to be smart about it. And do not only what is right, but what is best for everyone. There has to be 100% commitment on both sides and it has been determined that is not the case. So they both decided he should not move back home. He needs his space to get his head on straight. He needs to decided if this marriage is really what he wants, and if he does, then he will have to work at it.....hard. The pain is horrible, but going through it again would be just too much. So please continue to keep them in your prayers. And always, we pray for God's will to be not only done, but accepted. This is the first day for her to go back to work in a week, her car would not start. Good grief.


Debbie in NC said...

I will continue to keep your cousin in my prayers. This is probably a good move on her part now that I've read this. Let him earn his way back in....

Poor thing..with the car...when it rains it pours :(

I'm glad you are there for her with the wise head you have on your shoulders!

Michelle said...

I guess we should be mindful of unanswered prayers. I can only imagine what she is going through. The uncertainty of a relationship that she held so much value in to only find out that it was one sided. It is very hard to gain someones trust once that has been lost. Hopefully they can work this out and do what is best for BOTH of them. Not just because it is what he wants.

Also, great post about your mother. I miss my mom. We struggled with our relationship at times but I never doubted that she loved me. And she loved her only grandaughter even more. Hope your day was a happy one for you.

Mental P Mama said...

All the best to your cousin. I know it can be so hard, but don't think it HAS to be hard. Good luck to them, and the car not starting? That's just not right.